I never had that big reconnecting moment I was obsessing about. I just moved on to other things. Did he get it? Was he sorry? Did he learn anything? I don't know or "Ah N - yo!" As Zee would say. We just moved on to planting my birthday orchard. (that's what I am calling the 6 fruit trees I got for my birthday). He came up and hugged me spontaneously several times and things were cool.
That is the growth I was talking about. Incidences of pure crazy have reduced dramatically. Recovery times are faster. I am able to do more than just manage someone else's feelings. It's nice.
The cherry on top? I got to snuggle with the 2 youngest this morning. No trauma, no drama, it was just cool. See our feet?!
I love reading your blog thanks for writing. I'm a bit confused with the new names for the little boys? I take it they are not baby, Tot and Tyke any more?
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